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I've been encountered with way too many thought-provoking things today and I've hardly been able to stop thinking.

I went out and saw the movie Before Midnight today. It was very good. I love those movies, but they always leave me feeling this profound sense of sadness and emptiness (in addition to other more positive feelings, of course).

I was paging through old yearbooks earlier and they were making me feel depressed. I was looking at my yearbook from the first grade and realized that the people in there who were sixth graders then are now like 27 years old. I wonder if they're happy with their lives. I wonder if their lives have turned out the way that they'd hoped. I wonder if any of them page through their old yearbooks and wonder the same about me. Next I found a picture of this guy I knew who killed himself just a couple of months ago. We weren't close at all and I won't pretend like we were, but his suicide affected me a lot for some reason, and seeing a picture of him when he was like seven years old and smiling like any other little kid really bothered me. Then I found a picture of the guy who sexually assaulted me last year. He was in kindergarten in that yearbook. I don't know. I just feel weird.

What I should probably do is just become more productive again so I have less time to sit around and navel-gaze. It's often a self-indulgent waste of time. Contemplating life and the universe and existence and the past hasn't really gotten me anywhere good. I always just feel bad and sad and low.

I just feel so frustrated with myself. My life is a waste. Sometimes I feel like it's already over.

Very late, but...

Date: 2013-07-26 05:33 am (UTC)
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This reminded me of how I felt when I saw old pictures of my parents just before their divorce. The pictures were very strange, even upsetting in some ways, because they depicted a fake happiness between them. Their actual relationship was awful and abusive, but anyone who looks at those photos who doesn't know about their history wouldn't be able to guess that. I'm not sure how that relates to the kind of photos you saw, but somehow I feel that it's related. I felt very strange and uncomfortable when I saw those photos.

Anyway, I understand that you're feeling worthless, miserable, and so on, and I understand that just hearing someone over the internet say stuff to you probably won't make you feel much better. I just want to say that I'm very sorry to hear that you're going through all of this, that you don't deserve a second of it, and that I hope you keep hanging in there.

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